{"id":840,"date":"2018-04-19T13:33:14","date_gmt":"2018-04-19T17:33:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.firstreflection.org\/?p=840"},"modified":"2021-04-17T13:23:37","modified_gmt":"2021-04-17T17:23:37","slug":"easter-3b-mary-and-manitude","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.firstreflection.org\/index.php\/2018\/04\/19\/easter-3b-mary-and-manitude\/","title":{"rendered":"Easter 3B – Mary and Manitude"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mary and Manitude<\/h1>\n

A Sermon for the First Congregational Church of Albany, NY<\/a>
\nby Rev. James Eaton, Pastor
\nThird Sunday in Easter \u2022 April 15, 2018
\nJohn 20:11-18<\/a><\/h2>\n

A man with long legs gets on an airplane. The exit row seats have a bit more leg room and the helpful flight attendant suggests he sit in one of them. He replies, \u201cThose seats don\u2019t recline.\u201d She says, \u201cThey do, actually.\u201d He replies, \u201cNo they don\u2019t.\u201d She smiles and says, \u201cWhy don\u2019t you sit down and explain why you think you know more about this plane than I do?\u201d He just goes off\u2014to a different seat, obviously secure in his rightness, even though in fact he is wrong. That\u2019s manitude.\n<\/p>\n

A woman driving a shuttle bus pulls up to a hotel with some passengers. She\u2019s brought them to a side door. The hotel, she tells them, is being renovated; check-in is in a room through the door. The passengers get off; one couple heads around the building to the former lobby. A few minutes later, they are still wandering, as the man assures his wife that there must be a check-in somewhere and they finally get directions from a man. That\u2019s manitude.\n<\/p>\n

Some women come to the disciples and tell them they\u2019ve been to the tomb of Jesus and it\u2019s empty. But no one believes them. Luke says: \u201c\u2026they did not believe the women because their words seemed to them like nonsense.\u201d[Luke 21:11] Mark\u2019s version, as we heard on Easter Sunday, says Mary didn\u2019t even bother to tell them; as I was discussing it that week, more than one woman said, \u201cOh, I understand that, they wouldn\u2019t have believed her anyway.\u201d That\u2019s manitude.\n<\/p>\n

\u201cManitude\u201d is an attitude that diminishes and deprecates the contributions of women in favor of males, especially higher status males. These are gender-based examples but the same tendency is found in other places, the tendency to value based on gender, class, race or some other category that has nothing to do with competence.\n<\/p>\n

As I said last week, I want to think with you about the resurrection experience of these earliest Christians. Because the resurrection is the ultimate recommendation of Jesus. This is what we say: believe him because he overcame death, even death on a cross. Nowhere is there any account of the resurrection itself. What we have instead are accounts of people meeting the Risen Lord, encountering him. And right from the beginning, these are conditioned by culture and Manitude and the lives of the individuals involved. Yet their accounts contain the seeds that can bloom into our own spiritual lives. Last week, I talked about how sharing our wounds, as Jesus did with Thomas, can connect us. Today I want to reflect on how we can hear more clearly the voice of the Lord speaking in our midst.\n<\/p>\n

All the gospels agree that Mary of Magdala is either the first or among the first to discover Jesus has left the tomb. But the church remembered that she wasn\u2019t believed. In some versions, she doesn\u2019t tell the disciples; in others, as I mentioned, they don\u2019t believe her. The critical point is that these disciples who have walked with Jesus, eaten with Jesus, listened to Jesus as he told them over and over that he would go to his death and then be resurrected did not believe him and therefore didn\u2019t believe Mary\u2019s story.\n<\/p>\n

Now I don\u2019t know about you, but I find this very comforting. It turns out the earliest Christians are just like me: they don\u2019t believe what they can\u2019t see and touch. Even when they hear the Lord has risen, their first reaction is, \u201cThat doesn\u2019t make any sense.\u201d Maybe you\u2019ve had that reaction about some Christian ideas; maybe you just decided to set them aside. I know at times I\u2019ve done that. Some I\u2019ve come back to; some I never have.\n<\/p>\n

But Mary\u2019s experience isn\u2019t just the absence of Jesus\u2019 body; she also encounters the Risen, living Lord. As we read in the gospel of John, as she stands weeping outside the tomb, she meets three persons. Just as in other accounts, two of them are dressed in white, angels who tell her that Jesus isn\u2019t there. But then, <\/p>\n

14\u2026she turned around and saw Jesus standing there, but she did not know that it was Jesus. 15Jesus said to her, \u201cWoman, why are you weeping? Whom are you looking for?\u201d Supposing him to be the gardener, she said to him, \u201cSir, if you have carried him away, tell me where you have laid him, and I will take him away.\u201d 16Jesus said to her, \u201cMary!\u201d She turned and said to him in Hebrew, \u201cRabbouni!\u201d (which means Teacher). [John 20:14-16]<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

There are some details to notice here. First, Mary doesn\u2019t recognize Jesus. The same is true in other stories, including the encounter of some disciples near Emmaus. Even when you meet the Risen Lord, you may not know it. It\u2019s a stunning idea, isn\u2019t it? Have you met the Risen Lord and missed him because you didn\u2019t know who he was?\n<\/p>\n

It\u2019s when Jesus addresses her directly that the situation changes. He calls her name, \u201cMary\u201d. Think of it: the Son of God, the Risen Lord, the personal, image of God remembers her name. With that one word, we know that Jesus is not seeing her through the cloudy lens of her gender or class or anything else except her true self. There\u2019s nothing in the way. She\u2019s not a woman, she\u2019s not a well-off merchant, she\u2019s not a Jew, she\u2019s simply Mary.. She is a child of God.\n<\/p>\n

The second is her response. When he recognizes her, she also recognizes him and she calls out to him, not a name, but a relationship: \u201cRabouni,\u201d a Hebrew word that means something like \u201cTeacher\u201d. But it embraces more than a vocation: she is claiming him, naming a direct relationship in which she is already agreeing to be guided by his words, taught by his sayings. \u2028He isn\u2019t just a teacher: he is her teacher.\n<\/p>\n

We do not come to Jesus, Jesus comes to us, and he\u2019s most likely to come to us when we cry. Just as he uses his wounds to summon Thomas and the others, there is something about a person crying out that summons Jesus. We see that over and over in the healing stories. The modern Protestant orthodoxy we grew up with tended to minimize the healings but in fact, Mark offers healings as the first acts of Jesus\u2019 ministry: an exorcism, and the healing of Jesus\u2019 mother-in-law. It\u2019s significant that Mary is crying when he comes to her in the garden. She is not seeking him; there is no come to Jesus moment here. Instead, he comes to her.\n<\/p>\n

So the whole project of evangelistic pressure to believe what cannot be seen is illegitimate. We may be called to believe what we haven\u2019t seen but it\u2019s a call of the heart; no genuine faith comes from the social coercion of shame. The Lord waits to be recognized, coming to us when we are ready, calling us by name, speaking into our hearts. We do not know when this will happen to someone. And this is where the issue of manitude comes in. For when we screen out the insights and visions of someone, we may be missing a genuine vision of the Lord.\n<\/p>\n

We\u2019ve just come through Passover, when God\u2019s liberation of the Jews from slavery in Egypt is remembered, an act of salvation. That story really begins with a moment when Moses sees a burning bush in the distance and decides to turn aside and see this sight. When he does, he hears the call of God. The Rabbis have asked, \u201cHow long was the bush burning?\u201d and their answer is 400 years: it started burning when the Jews were first enslaved. \u201cWhat would have happened if someone had noticed the bush burning 100 years before Moses?\u201d\u2014to which they answer, we would have been saved 100 years earlier. [https:\/\/www.myjewishlearning.com\/rabbis-without-borders\/the-yearning-burning-bush\/]\n<\/p>\n

We cannot afford to screen out, to miss, visions and hopes; we need everyone to share because who knows which one has seen the Lord. This is a hard concept to get across. Most church organizations do not really believe it and since most of us have been somewhere else, we don\u2019t believe it either. Early on, the church tragically adopted the Roman Empire hierarchy as its model. So it preached that there were different orders of Christians. In the west, the top guy was and is the Pope, with bishops under him, and so on. Protestants mostly took over this organization; they just replaced the pope with a king or a group of bishops. Even some Puritans, who became Presbyterians and the United Church of Christ, took over the idea that somehow clergy had a special connection to inspiration.\n<\/p>\n

We don\u2019t. I don\u2019t. I have a graduate degree in theology, mostly in the Bible. I have lots of education in administering a church, some training in counseling. I have several decades of experience leading worship. But I don\u2019t have any more access to Jesus and to God than you do; you don\u2019t have more than I. This is the great insight of the first Congregationalists and it is still the heart of what makes this way of doing church so important. We know each other here as equal covenant partners in this congregation. At our best, we act without manitude, we listen to everyone, we care for each one.\n<\/p>\n

That leads me to ask something of you. We need to hear from each other; we need to hear about moments of inspiration, we need to hear what this church means to you. We need to hear what others in the church need, we need to hear your insights on our next steps. We\u2019re about six weeks from our Annual Meeting. You all know how dull these often are. Wouldn\u2019t it be great if everyone came prepared to say a word about what makes them thankful for this church? Wouldn\u2019t it be amazing if people came and shared their vision of what we should do next year? Wouldn\u2019t it be incredible if people volunteered to plan and create those next steps?\n<\/p>\n

I want to get in the habit of making suggestions. For almost four years I\u2019ve picked the hymns. Some you liked, some you didn\u2019t, some you refused to sing. That\u2019s ok. What if we shared this? In your bulletin today there\u2019s a card that invites you to make some suggestions about worship. Please fill it out; you can drop it off in the office, you can put it in the offering plate. You can take it home, think about it and send it back. Send a letter with it, if you wish, something to share in the newsletter.\n<\/p>\n

\fManitude is that human tendency, often gendered, to not hear someone because you don\u2019t respect them. It might be because of gender, or race or class or age or appearance or sexuality. We can\u2019t afford it. The disciples missed the first reports of the resurrection because they didn\u2019t believe them, possibly because they came from women. Every Easter we sing, \u201cChrist the Lord is Risen Today.\u201d Don\u2019t miss him; don\u2019t miss hearing others who have seen him. When we connect as a congregation of Christ, sharing our wounds, loving each other as he commanded, he promised to be present in our midst. He is; he always is.\n<\/p>\n

Amen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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